I NEED A BREAK

For two weeks I've been taking some time to myself. Reflecting on life and this new venture I've decided to take. How does that look like for me? My routine literally stayed the same, cooking, cleaning, homeschooling etc... I did have moments where I read, sang really loudly in the car or shower, and watched movies on Netflix to relax. (A lot more often than normal) I took a break for so many reasons. My first mistake was that I stressed over issues that were not even mine. It clouded my mind. Second, I let the smallest things get to me. I am normally a patient person but haven't been so much lately. Lastly, I didn't do anything about these feelings. I was dwelling on things I couldn't control. So how did I overcome this? Praying. I made a choice every morning. I knew that I couldn't be productive to myself and my family this way. Not only did I have a family depending on me but people that actually believe in me and love me. I've sadly learned while being a parent for so many years, that there is a misconception on moms and taking beaks. It could go both ways. Other people make comments or make moms feel like they do not deserve or shouldn't take time off. Well we did decide on having kids, right? We chose this life. On the other hand, us moms feel guilt. Taking time off will ruin my kid's routine. Feeling like you are not putting your family first. I do not deserve this. I'm just a stay at home mom. Feelings of not contributing enough. Whether you stay at home or work and come home and take care of your family know that you are doing enough. We bust our butts every day and do the best we can. US MOMS NEED A BREAK! Our mental state needs to be somewhat stable to be a good parent. We need to be healthy first to set a good example for our babies. Do not feel guilty for taking a coffee break with your friends when your partner comes home from work. We need that time to recharge and be the best moms I know you already are. We got this!

Your Friend,

Noemi Causseaux